A new baby in the family

With the arrival of a new addition into the family feelings of nurture and protection surface and you want them to feel wanted, loved, protected and happy. You want to help them grow into successful and happy adults.  Powerful healing crystals to aid them through infancy and childhood are the beautiful…

Missing you

The last few days I have been thinking about you more than usual.  Your absence is palpable.  Perhaps it is because we are about to welcome a new family member..The pain of one year without you is too much to bear.  What have I done for this year?  Nothing except mourn.  Mourn every single day, every minute, every second of every day…

Beeswax: Mother Nature’s gift

Have you ever stopped to think about tea-light candles?  You probably aren’t aware, but they are made from paraffin wax, a highly toxic by product of petroleum refinement..Beeswax candles are natural negative ion generators, so when you burn a beeswax candle you are actually cleaning the air as opposed to polluting it.  Negative ionisation of the air actually makes you feel healthier.   Being Mother Nature’s natural air purifiers…

Garnet: the birthstone of my son, Adam

Garnets are said to light up the night and protect it’s wearer from nightmares.
Garnet reminds us that actions speak louder than words and this was a motto that Adam lived by..Setting the mood for relaxation perhaps with lighted beeswax candles, lie down in your sacred space, surrounded by the crystals you feel especially bonded to today.  Free your mind…

Coping with grief: The importance of self-care

Grief is emotional torture.  The thoughts that go through your head are nothing short of your own personal horror film.  The anguish, soul destroying guilt, regrets and all of the other feelings on the spectrum, are just so painful it is a wonder that we are able to function..I am making a promise to my son that I will, from now on, look after myself and do little things each day to make myself feel good…

Crystal and grief work: Sugilite

Sugilite is a violet ray crystal with a beautiful violet colouring..It will bring you to a place of calmness and serenity so that you may heal from the loss of your loved one.   You may also connect through meditation to the spirit of your loved one with this stone of love and forgiveness…Psychic abilities are magnified with sugilite…

Azurite

Azurite was sacred to the ancient Egyptians and is named after the Persian word ‘lazhward’ for its brilliant blue colouring..It serves to balance when one is having difficulty in conveying one’s message to others.  Communication is crucial amongst those who are suffering the loss of a loved one and this can be aided if meditated upon with a piece of azurite placed over the throat area whilst lying down…

Amethyst

Amethyst has been held in high esteem throughout history both for its glorious beauty as well as its powers to alleviate the mind and spirit of ills..Particularly helpful in grief work is the ‘rutilated’ amethyst where the intent to heal the intensity of the grief is meditated upon and thoughts of your loved one are meditated upon whilst holding this rutilated amethyst crystal.  The brownish segments of the stone are known as Goethite and this is said to find the link between the deeper psyche and Mother Earth…

Crystal work: Stilbite and apophyllite

Stilbite can help you to connect with memories of past lives and will remove obstacles preventing happiness and satisfaction, removing also, self-destructive tendencies. It enhances intuitive states and aids in the understanding of the guidance received from spirit guides and guardian angels…

Soulful moments with you, my son

Know that I love you Adam, that my love for you has always been pure…Soul power is so strong when it is felt, perhaps this is why I can write this post tonight and not cry, because you are giving me strength to hold myself together…A mother who has lost a child would understand why I talk this way, think this way…